Let Your Characters Make Their Own Decisions

Characters are the soul of the story. They are born out your imagination and ought to grow beyond it. Let them become more than ink and paper. Let them come to life! Unless you have Frankenstein like ambitions, they will never be made out of flesh and blood. But as a writer, you have the prefect excuse to have imaginary friends. It would be a shame not to use it!

Get to know your characters well. Go to a bar with them, take them with you on a walk through the woods or play truth or dare with them. It does not matter how you get the know them, but it is important that you do. Your whole story will be spun around them. The characters that stay with us long after we finished a book. 

When you know your characters, you will know what drives them and what choices they will make. This is very important if you start building your plot. You cannot force your character to take a certain decision that will be more favourable for the plot. They have a mind of their own and they are driven by their own motivations. That is why it is important to create the plot around the characters and let them influence the plot by their choices. Do not bend the characters in such a way that they fit into the plot, but bend the plot. 

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That is why I barely plan the plot ahead. I know what the main conflict in the story will be and I have an idea of how it is going to end, but what happens on the journey is something I have yet to discover. While writing I come up with events that can happen during the stories and while I am looking forward to write them, they might not end up in the story because of a certain decision a character makes. 
I spend a lot of time writing a certain scene that was  supposed to be pivotal in the healing process of one of my characters. The scene would give him insight of what had happened to him and how he could continue on living his life. I knew exactly how the scene was going to be. I pictured every detail in my head. Unfortunately the scene did not fit the character. It would have this enlightening effect that it was supposed to have. 

When I start writing a story, I know where it will begin and I have an idea about how it will end. Sometimes I have ideas about events that can take place throughout the journey the characters make. When I write I get into the head of my characters. I discover most of the story while I travel with them through it. This makes it very easy for me to respect my characters and accept the choices they made; even when that means that very cool event I was dying to write will not happen. On the contrary, it would damage the character even more unless I would force him to think a certain way and perceive certain things in a different way. It would be very out-of-character for him. It was a tough decision the scrap the scene because I already put quite some effort and time in it. It was for the greater good. 

Getting to know your characters well will take a while. You will never know them as well as you think you do and that is great. Nothing is as thrilling as discovering something surprising about your characters. Let them be born out of your imagination, let them grow beyond the page and give them their own voice, thoughts and emotions. Respect them and never force them to do things they would not do. If you want your character to do something uncharacteristic, make sure you have a good reason for it. Maybe another character forces him/her to do it or perhaps he/she will lose something/someone very dear to them if they do not do it.

Storytelling

As  a writer and a bookworm, it seems only natural that I am fascinated by stories. We hear stories daily: someone telling us about their day or even their holiday or perhaps recounting something they have seen on their way to the grocery store. Stories have been told in one way or another since the prehistoric times. Just look at the painting made in caves. Telling stories is, just like dreaming, a way to process experiences.  

My fascination for stories goes beyond the written word, though I have to admit that books are my favourite medium for stories. It is for me the easiest way to get completely immersed in the story. Because there are rarely images in novels, I am encouraged use my imagination while reading. This way I can add a lot of elements created by me to the story. Often I imagine characters to look very different from the description. For some reason I just cannot seem to remember more than basic body shape, hair colour, eye colour and a distinctive feature like a scar or tattoo. Exactly how a character looks rarely matter in a story anyway.

Writing makes me imagine things even more clearly than reading. It is my world filled with my places and my characters. Scenes play in my mind as a film. I can see them more clearly when I close my eyes and nothing disturbs me. Thus at night, right before I fall asleep, my story because very vivid. I love these moments and treasure them.

Another way of storytelling I really enjoy are games. While games created the visual and don’t leave a lot up to the gamer’s imagination, you still have to think about what you do. Especially RPGs (Roleplaying games) ought to have a great story where you get into the skin of a character and explore the world and save it from evil. Games with great stories enable me to dig deep into my characters being and see the world through their eyes. I love games like Dragon Age and The Elderscrolls series were in your decisions have an impact on the game world and the further outcome of the story. Games can enable you to live the story on  a very interactive level.

A lot of people like films and television series as a way to tell and listen to stories. While I can enjoy a good film or series, I often have trouble staying focused. Even good films and series tend to bore me. The reason for this is that it is a very passive experience. I do not have the imagine how everything looks, nor do I have to control a character and make decisions. The only moment I can get really into a film is in the cinema when everything is dark and there are no other distractions around but the film. Even while watching great films at home I can get bored. I just hate doing nothing but staring at a screen. Watching a film goes often hand in hand with snacking or painting my nails or something.  

While there are many more ways to experience stories these are for me the main means. I would love to know what your favourite way is to experience stories, so feel free to leave them in the comment section below!